A Good article on Lost love and what to look in the next realtionship

I think, and this is just me, I can't talk for anyone else...but I loved someone like that to....here's my take

1. Its the very first time I ever really knew love and it was great...he didn't, but I did, and I'm thankful for that, and understand the meaning of "better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all".

2. We always want what we can't have.....we're like children, yanno...

3. Consider yourself very fortunate....because, maybe, just maybe, she's still cheating...remember, a person doesn't do, what isn't already in them to be...

4. The hurt was so bad that you fear giving your heart away again...don't...it may happen again and again, do not take it as a rejection, simply understand that the two of you are not compatible...not really...if you were, you'd still be together.

Take it slow, go out and meet people and when you meet someone, don't fall in love with love or your idea of what love is...be realistic and look at who she really is....enfactuation can be the biggest lier....yanno? Watch how she talks about her family, and God as my witness, if she's had big family problems, please stay away....when your with ther and her family members does she treat them with respect....does she have goals...and does she plan to achieve them when your married, or abandon them...or is she simply looking for a man to take care of her....?????? It is best to realistically ask yourself these questions...

Hugs and good luck...
and remember, just my thoughts